After sexual abuse in California, the evidence that usually matters most in a civil claim includes unwashed clothing and other physical items, digital messages, medical and therapy records, the names of people who noticed something or were told, and records of lost income and costs. Keeping what already exists, unchanged, keeps options open, and preserving it is not a commitment to use it.
Many people reading this have not decided anything yet. The question underneath is usually simpler: what to hold onto now, before knowing what comes next.
This guide is written from the perspective of California civil law, which covers claims for money damages against the person who caused the harm and against an institution that may have failed to protect the survivor. Evidence in these cases often shows both what happened and what an institution knew and did. For an overview, see the guide to a California sexual abuse lawsuit.
Physical Evidence: What to Keep and How to Keep It
Biological material, such as traces of skin, hair or fluids, can stay on clothing, bedding, towels or similar items. Washing removes it, and plastic bags trap moisture and can degrade it. Items are generally kept unwashed and stored in paper bags, each one separately if possible.
Gifts or notes from the person responsible, packaging, or other connected objects can also matter, often by showing a relationship, a timeline or a pattern of contact.
Photos of visible injuries are most useful when taken early, from several angles, with the phone's date and time data intact. Photos of the location, if safely reachable, can help show layout, lighting or who had access.
A SANE exam is another option. SANE stands for Sexual Assault Nurse Examiner, a nurse trained to collect forensic evidence and keep it under a chain of custody (a documented record of who handled the evidence and when). Whether to have this exam is a personal decision.
Biological evidence can degrade within days. Whatever still exists today can still be preserved, and many civil claims proceed without biological evidence at all.
Digital and Electronic Evidence
Messages are often central evidence in a modern case, and they are easy to lose. This category includes:
- Texts, direct messages and emails. Screenshots with dates and times visible, backed up where the other person cannot access them.
- Social media posts and messages. Blocking or reporting an account can remove the thread, so survivors often capture screenshots first.
- Voicemails and call logs.
- Dating app or platform messages where contact first began.
- Photos or videos sent by the other person, kept as they are, without forwarding.
- Location data, check-ins and calendar entries.
A forensic expert (a technical specialist who recovers and verifies digital data) can sometimes recover deleted messages.
Embarrassing or complicated content is still generally kept rather than deleted. An attorney can review what is relevant; deleting material removes that choice and can raise questions later.
Medical and Mental Health Records
Emergency room or urgent care records can document injuries, statements made at the time and treatment given. Therapy, psychiatry, primary care and pharmacy records show the course of treatment and how the harm has affected daily life.
California law gives patients the right to inspect and get copies of their own medical records, usually through a written request to the provider's records office.
A private journal or notes app with dated entries about symptoms, sleep problems, panic or missed work can also serve as a record. It does not need to describe the abuse itself.
Medical information in California is protected by the Confidentiality of Medical Information Act and by federal HIPAA rules. How and when records are shared in a civil claim is something an attorney handles carefully. The guide on confidentiality in sexual abuse claims explains more.
